Even when written from a woman’s POV, most sex scenes still use male-centered language—“he penetrated her,” “she was tight,” “he filled her.” This blog post explores how deeply ingrained these phrases are, why they matter, and how we can rewrite sex from the inside out. Through embodiment, intentional language, and inclusive perspectives, we can create sex scenes that feel true, empowering, and deeply human.

Are your fantasy cultures just modern values in medieval clothing? Do your worlds feel too familiar—even with dragons? This blog explores how to break free from unconscious Western defaults in your worldbuilding and create cultures that feel rooted, real, and radically different. From sacred values to power dynamics, architecture to myth, this is your invitation to decolonize your creative instincts—and build like you mean it.

Podcasts are my go-to creative fuel. Here are my top writing-related shows that keep me inspired, informed, and grounded. 🎧📝

These YouTube channels completely transformed my writing and worldbuilding—check them out if you want your worlds to feel real!

Need tools, templates, and access to publishing pros? Reedsy is the writer’s toolkit I wish I’d found sooner—and still use today.